Choosing an NLP Course or Practitioner: Questions to Ask First

Choosing an NLP Course or Practitioner: Questions to Ask First

NLP training is a large industry. Courses range from a free introductory evening to a multi-thousand-pound “Master Practitioner” programme. Because the field is unregulated, quality varies widely, and the title on a certificate tells you very little.

What “unregulated” means

In the UK, nobody has to hold any qualification to call themselves an NLP practitioner, trainer or coach. There are trade associations and private certifying bodies, but they are not statutory regulators and their standards differ. NLP is also not a recognised clinical qualification, so an NLP certificate does not qualify someone to treat a mental or physical health condition.

Hypnotherapy is a little different: voluntary registers such as the CNHC exist, though hypnotherapy is not statutorily regulated either.

Questions to ask a course provider

  • What published evidence supports the claims you make? A good answer is honest about gaps.
  • How many hours of training, and how many are supervised practice? A few days rarely equals real skill.
  • Who is the trainer and what is their background? Look for a relevant professional qualification, such as in counselling, psychology or coaching, in addition to NLP.
  • What does the certificate allow me to do? Be wary of anything implying it licenses you to treat illness.
  • What is the refund and complaints policy?
  • Can I speak to past students?

Questions to ask a practitioner

  • What is your training and professional background?
  • Do you have insurance and follow a code of ethics?
  • What can you help with, and what would you refer on?
  • How will we know if it’s working?
  • Do you work alongside my doctor or therapist?

Red flags

  • Guarantees or cures. “Cure your phobia in an hour.”
  • Claims of influence over others. “Make anyone say yes.”
  • Pressure to sign up on the day, or to buy the next level immediately.
  • Instant titles. “Master” or “Trainer” in a few days.
  • Discouraging medical care. A good practitioner never tells you to stop treatment.
  • Vague answers about evidence or hostility to questions.

Getting value

  • Decide your goal first. Communication, coaching, public speaking or a personal project?
  • Try a short intro before committing.
  • Compare alternatives. A recognised coaching qualification, a CBT-informed course or a public speaking group may suit you better.
  • Treat it as a toolkit. Keep what works for you and drop the rest.

For health problems

See your GP. If you want a talking therapy, look for a therapist registered with a recognised professional body, such as the BACP or UKCP, or accredited CBT through BABCP.

The bottom line

A good NLP course can teach useful communication skills, and a good practitioner can be a supportive coach. A bad one can cost you money and, worse, delay proper care. Ask questions first. A provider worth paying will welcome them.

Next in the series: The Meta Model: Questions That Turn Vague Statements into Clear Ones


This article is for general information and is not medical advice.